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Dec 13, 2020, 07:28 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
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Originally Posted by Soupe du jour
That's horribly sad that you miscarried at such a late stage of pregnancy, BethRags. Do you ever do anything to memorialize the baby on the day you lost him/her? Perhaps if you did more formally recognize that day, then Christmas could be looked at differently in the future. Or could you create a special tradition on Christmas that would help you cope with the due date better?  |
 Thank you for asking, Soupe. No, I never have done anything special. It just hurt so much...the best thing I could do was allow time to pass. Also, for the first time, I recently brought the loss up in therapy. My therapist was extremely supportive and kind. That helped a lot.
The situation was, my husband and I were newly separated and I was seeing another man. Well, people get judgmental. So I heard a lot of "It's for the best." And maybe it was for the best - but that doesn't take the pain away. Strangely, the man I was seeing also had BD1.
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