Hello velenoso: I don't know as I have anything to offer with regard to your concerns. However I noticed this is your first post here on PC. So I thought I would at least welcome you to Psych Central.

One additional forum, here on PC, that may be of interest would be the Relationships and Communication forum. Here's a link:

https://psychcentralforums.com/relat...communication/

And then here's a link to an article, from Psych Central's archives, that offers tips for communications within relationships:

9 Steps to Better Communication Today

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.