I agree, the trauma responses just ARE.
Because of what WAS.

and however many times these are judged, internally or externally, those judgments do not alter that TRUTH.

I am not currently having much success in communicating with my husband...or some others either.....due to trauma responses and what WAS.

I have had to try to learn this (in the other two posts) without the assistance of ''professionals'' in this forest. I am continuing to try to ''grow'' without any of their ''assistance'' (irl)

Interesting posts. thanks!

Respect