My Dear Fuzzy, in my opinion the Best way to deal with these People is to not deal with them at ALL And Simply Leave Them Be. Not ForGetting, Simply Moving On. i am So Sorry i couldn't say SomeThing Wiser. SEnding Many Safe, Warm Hugs to BOTH You, @Fuzzybear, Your Family, Your FriEnds And ALL Of Your Loved Ones! Keep fighting And keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!