soooooooooo..... when I get done talking to my friend.. I feel exhausted....

I can... say... I am enjoying the cooler weather... and SUDDENLLY... she is debating that it is really not cooler.. and what am I talking about.. and.. and.. and.. and.. and..

and 10 minutes later... she has wound down... and I have been listening the whole time....

and then... I will say... ahhh... I saw the cutest.. German Short Haired Pointer doggie.. and he was.. smaller than yours was.. and he was friendly... and licked my face..

and then... well friend says.. well she couldn't have been a pure bred.. and.. and.. and.. and.. and.. and.. ending with.....you had better not be thinking about getting one...

is this the way conversations are supposed to go?????

I mean I have male friends.. and it is just sorta... well.. not Great Debates....

so is it me???? are there "safe" topics I could talk about with my friend???
Ones that won't..... trigger her...