I remember you talking about this friend before Liz. It sounds like this individual actually gets depressed and doesn’t want to fuss period. Perhaps COVID gives her just another reason to avoid. I am sorry in that I don’t think she really realizes she is letting YOU down when she does this. She probably actually doesn’t think she is very important. Hense she gives off this negative feeling that you find so disappointing.

Honestly given how bad COVID is right now you are safer not going anywhere even though you want to get out and socialize.

At least it’s better to know now then last minute. It’s understandable you are so disappointed and angry.