Since my parents have retired, there's absolutely no convenient time to talk to them. They're in the middle of something. They just started something. They're finishing something. They just finished something. They're in a hurry. They don't want to be in a hurry. They're too depressed to talk. They want to be alone. They're too busy talking to someone else. EVERY ******* MOMENT is the absolute worst possible moment to talk to them. They make me so miserable and they act like I'm ruining their lives, yet they play the whole, "Well, you'll never make it on your own" or "You need a rich man who could care for you" or "Why, in the old days generations would all live together" or "You're too mentally ill to care for yourself". I just want to scream!!!!