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Old Dec 15, 2020, 11:01 PM
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I think you have to stop walking on eggshells and just confront her, compassionately, with her behavior and how it affects you. If she gets passive aggressive, confront her for that, but again, compassionately. Tell her you want to have a healthy friendship but some thing she does hurt you, and when you can't talk about how you feel without her getting passive aggressive, so that hurts the friendship too. If she can't have the conversation with you, then it's just unhealthy for you and time to let it go...
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.

Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien

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