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Old Dec 16, 2020, 04:36 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Uncontested divorce is always the best. There’s nothing to contest here as the only thing people contest is custody of children and property/major financial obligations, which isn’t the case here. Of course people could argue about forks and spoons but no lawyers want to get into petty stuff.

I’d try not to meet with him in person. No need to discuss divorce details in person. Over the phone is just fine imho
True. And thanks.

Yeah, I really don't know about meeting him in person right now. Since I am nervous and anxious about it, perhaps a discussion by phone (or even text) is better.

My abuse advocate would probably advocate for not seeing him in person, based on our safety plan.
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Last edited by Have Hope; Dec 16, 2020 at 05:58 AM.