Psychotic, i'm sorry the girls haven't gotten back to you. i don't know the story but you maybe better off without them. do you think? i do know it will drive you nuts to worry about other people that we want so badly. My husband left after 34 years of marriage and i am still fixated on him. i need to just let him go and take care of me instead of him. i don't know if this helps or not but try and get better and post all you can ......pj56......xxoo