I'm sorry you have to deal with this. The medical system can be extremely frustrating . Do you have a regular primary care doctor and/or psychiatrist? Or a therapist? I've found that your regular doctors can be advocates if they've known you for a while. I agree with Beth in that you often have to take things into your own hands and keep looking until you find someone you can work with. That is what I had to do to get the right psychiatrist and primary care doc.