Geez, im sorry if i tainted this thread. I recalled myself not being able to handle conflicting desires. It was like TEN YEARS LATER that my mother told me i could bring my friend M to xmas, that even my brother and SIL said it was okay NOW.

Ten years later. when i was like 60.

Anyway, it is great when you get to the point where you just say, wtf are you even talking about. M who?

Anyway, sorry for the taint!