I don't have anything to do with people like that Fuzzy but if for some reason the person can't be avoided then I keep my interactions with them to the bare minimum. Because I just can't handle them.

But in terms of the forgiveness side of it, one thing that helps me to keep some kind of perspective around it is to realize that, yes, they are responsible for their behaviors, as we all are, but that they didn't actually create themselves the way they are. How they became or why they're the type of person they are, isn't their own doing as far as I can tell.

So thinking of it that way helps me, in a funny way, to come back to, I guess, a more forgiving attitude.