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Originally Posted by TunedOut
I have always found you to be a good listener who gives good but gentle feedback (based on how you respond to posts). Difficult people have more trouble finding people who listen to them. Perhaps in the past, you didn't walk away soon enough (when overwhelmed) but now you are. I think you would agree that this doesn't mean we aren't responsive to difficult people in our lives. In my case, I have learned (most of the time, some family members still can draw me in because I love them) not to take it so personally which enables me to walk away rather than be guilt tripped into feeling responsible for their outbursts. I still end up listening to it sometimes because I want to be a good person and everyone needs love and attention but I don't get as emotionally upset just because they are. I have gotten better at distinguishing which emotional problems are mine and which are theirs.
I think we have both made a lot of progress!!!!
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I agree, we both improved in those ways. IMHO, it wasn’t the meds that made us do it, it was simply living and learning, then changing those behaviors.
I am now prescribed Lamictal combined with some other emotion meds. I read the side effects and it scares me. I was started on a low dose and immediately it caused me itching. IDK what results, if any, it is giving me. It is intended for seizures or bipolar treatment. I have neither of those conditions!
So, I’ll continue the low dose until I speak to my Dr. Again and he’ll drop me as a patient and then I’m back on my own without a psychiatrist and no more meds approach to solving my interpersonal relationship problems where
I am the common denominator, the one reacting with anxiety, depression, and emotional ‘dysregulation’ from the treatment by these few A hole people (and their behavior is undeniable A hole).