Yeah it does fit. Just few things seemed different to me

Men I’ve met who were narcissistic wouldn’t ever allow a woman to pay for anything (up to the extreme) because that hurts their inflated ego and that means they don’t have all the power. If they always pay they have all the power and their ego is elevated over weak dependent women

In fact it was always one of the red flags for me if a man isn’t willing to let women pay for anything, not even fair share or occasional. Their ego is too inflated for that.

It always felt like your husband willing to use women financially is not a typical sign of a narcissist. But of course it could be, just a different variation