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Old Dec 17, 2020, 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted by ann bog View Post
For instance, giving someone help when they don’t ask for it. I’ve found that many people don’t have the strength to end a relationship or give it a break and unfortunately actually hurts both people in the relationship.

I hear you. It's hard though. It's so difficult to watch someone go through an unhealthy/toxic relationship and when they choose to remain in it for loving the person even though that person is hurting you. But I did that myself, and people here supported me through the entire process until I eventually decided I MUST leave.
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