It’s been two years since I’ve worked. I left my job because it was a toxic situation but my mental health often interfered with my job. In the last two years, I have stopped showering, brushing my teeth or changing my clothes. I’ve suffered severe depressions and a manic episode that knocked me out of my socks. I’ve had terrible anxiety and ocd symptoms. I’m currently doing well (although I don’t take care of my hygiene and lay on the sofa most of the day). I have 3 adult children and two teenagers, and I am constantly busy helping them. It’s exhausting. But I’m bored and feel badly that I don’t have a career. I’m borderline obsessed by not having a career. My husband is very successful and is often acknowledged for his work and I’m jealous.

I have a job interview Tuesday for a full-time job doing telehealth. Don‘t laugh! My husband told me that he considers me to be disabled due to mental illness. He thinks the job would just bring more stress. He pointed out that only recently I was having ocd symptoms and mania. He wants to support me. He doesn’t understand why being his wife is not enough for me.

I’m 50. If I don’t work now, then when? Is my career over due to my mental health? Should I give up or go for it? What should I do?