I think we do have things where we disagree. From his point of view I am a person with a brain therefore I should be able to do the things a person does? I get why his brain sees it like that, because that's how he is.

But I know my brain did not make all the connections I needed for life. I know I need what I missed out on and I know I can't have it. I feel like a broken hammer trying to fix myself, and he thinks all I need is practice or self care. So I guess I disagree with that, but I still go to therapy because I don't know what else to do.