I welcome any feedback and advice please.
My fiancé’s 21-year-old daughter states that she does not want her father to have a girlfriend. We’ve been together six years now and she has treated me like a doormat. She’s off to college so I do not have to tolerate her disrespect in person.
Last Christmas she came over late, and with an attitude already in place. After dinner but she got into it with her dad and proclaimed her great dislike for me. She said she did not want her dad to have a girlfriend, and she did not like the way he was spending money on me. (I live on a ranch which is paid for and he does not provide any financial support to me). I told her I loved her and we could be a family and she retarded that she did not want my love what did she need a second family. My boyfriend as usual did not discipline his daughter nor back me up but finally when she was done yelling he did suggested she leave.
After she left he and I got in a fight he was yelling at me all the things that he should’ve been saying to her albeit not in a state of rage, but still he held his tongue with her.
She has never offered an apology. After a few months I sent her a text suggesting we try to get along at least for the sake of her father. Another couple months after that he threatened to cut off her phone if she didn’t apologize and with reluctance she sent a text which I assume she thought was an apology.
And now here’s a big dilemma: he wants her to come over this Christmas and I am not OK with that.
Your opinions are welcomed please