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Originally Posted by sarahsweets
That is a tough situation. Do you plan on getting married? That can be something that you will have to make concessions with. He may end up resenting you for not letting or wanting him to see his daughter and he does have a right to. Has he talked to his daughter about how he loves you and wants to be with you and that she needs to try and accept that? Is there a way you can have her over and just stay a little quiet and not take any bait from her so he can see her? Has he talked to the ex to find out if she is bad mouthing you? Is it ant girlfriend he would have or just you? if she were to apologize what would that do for you? Especially if she is just doing it because he wants her to or she is giving lip service to you? If it wasnt sincere would that matter to you?
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Thank you for responding! Yes his ex is bad talking me, but she also bad talks him so I think she is a major influence on her daughter. We are engaged but I really need to think about what my future will be like. This is my house it’s actually a ranch so there’s plenty of room for me to go and keep myself busy should she decide to come over. I actually work with his ex girlfriend once a month she is the accountant for his business and she has said she was disliked and treated poorly by the daughter as well when they were dating.