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Originally Posted by ruby2011
I might get that people may fail to appreciate when someones nice to them, but I dont understand why they actually have to get mad. Every time Im nice to someone or do nice things, they go psycho. Like the supervisor at Arbys who got mad that I liked her and thought so highly of her.
More recently, today, I was on drive thru at McDonalds and a customer ordered 2 sandwiches, 2 hash browns, and 2 drinks separately. I asked her if she wanted to make those a meal. She said not really. I then explained shes getting the exact same thing but it cost less. She then went off on me saying I dont care do whatever! Thats all I want. I said sorry I was just being nice.
Ok so I could do whatever was basically what she said, but i dont know why she got to get angry. Is it wrong to be nice? Or maybe I have bad luck because other people can do nice things and people appreciate it. Idk but after Arbys, this incident, and lots of other incidents, Im beginning to think maybe people all behave irrationally.
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In the first scenario with the supervisor at Arby's. We've explained why she acted that way. You creeped her out. As for the woman at McDonald's, she may have just been having a bad day or was in a hurry. It is also possible that you took her tone the wrong way or she said it in a way that mad her sound angry when she really wasn't. As for the scenario where you gave up your booth, that was actually very polite. In that case, sounds like the two people were just ungrateful. I know people like that.