If you're not OK with it then it is rather simple, just make your voice heard from your boyFriEnd and let him know that you want a peaceful Christmas. After all he also seems to have noticed how inappropriate his daughter's behavior is. Definitely stand up for yourself, talk to him about ALL of this and see how it goes from there. SEnding many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @LoneCowgirl, your Family, your FriEnds, your boyFriEnds and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!