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Perna said:
I would go at it sideways and work on self-esteem:

http://www.amazon.com/Self-Esteem-Wo.../dp/1572242523

But a lot of people like, When I Say No, I Feel Guilty:

http://www.amazon.com/When-Say-No-Fe.../dp/0553263900

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i went to the store i buy a book or two and these are actually the 2 i ended up buying. maybe ill show T on Tuesday.