I stopped seeing this T a few months ago, sadly as seeing her had been so helpful and I had/have a lot of gains from seeing her. Near the end I told her what I felt I needed to feel safe talking to her, and she wasn’t receptive, wouldn’t agree. At another session I was talking about how I wasn’t feel safe and she asked me what I needed. It had been hard to say it the first time round and to have her rejection, so I didn’t repeat it. I think she didn’t retain things from session to session, her memory was bad. She said something along the lines of: ‘I can’t help you if you don’t tell me’. That really did my head in.