That does sound annoying, not helpful for you either - if it was just her not remembering what you said you needed to feel safe (then taking your comments on board and accommodating you) I’d say try not to take it personally (e.g. my T keeps forgetting whether I like children or not, and I just remind her when she has to refresh her memory - that’s not a “safety” thing for me, just an example of how my T has trouble remembering, but I’m fine with that anyway) but I don’t understand why she would put up obstacles then blame you.