I used to feel that I could accept her poor memory and that it was the content of each individual session that mattered, but in hindsight I think I needed more continuity. There were insights I told her about how I saw things my dad had done impacting how the way she spoke to me affected me, but I don’t think she ever retained this, so she kept doing the same thing. Or maybe she didn’t think it was significant. Maybe I should have just sat with the feelings that came up each time.