GOOD questions!!!!!

It makes no difference in my decision to divorce him. I suppose I just want him to take responsibility for his abuse. He acknowledged it back in July when I faced him with a divorce then. Now he's backpedaling and is deflecting all responsibility onto me again, which is infuriating.

I sent him a note this morning saying as much. I know it won't make a difference. But it felt good to say it to him, nonetheless.