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Originally Posted by Have Hope
GOOD questions!!!!!
It makes no difference in my decision to divorce him. I suppose I just want him to take responsibility for his abuse. He acknowledged it back in July when I faced him with a divorce then. Now he's backpedaling and is deflecting all responsibility onto me again, which is infuriating.
I sent him a note this morning saying as much. I know it won't make a difference. But it felt good to say it to him, nonetheless.
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Because you are divorcing he has no incentive to take responsibility for abuse and doing so would not be in his best interest for self protection during a divorce. But, considering the assets to be divided are minimal and no children, nothing really matters for what is said and won’t get anyone any more money or anything to legally battle over. You ended it. Try to control the alcohol as a bad coping mechanism and don’t text him anymore.