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Old Dec 20, 2020, 08:19 AM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
Because you are divorcing he has no incentive to take responsibility for abuse and doing so would not be in his best interest for self protection during a divorce. But, considering the assets to be divided are minimal and no children, nothing really matters for what is said and won’t get anyone any more money or anything to legally battle over. You ended it. Try to control the alcohol as a bad coping mechanism and don’t text him anymore.
Thanks, @TishaBuv. I want to file for an uncontested no fault divorce since it's the quickest and cheapest way. In a contested fault divorce, then the abuse would matter.

He claims he is willing to go to therapy to make this work. He would have to acknowledge his abuse and problems in order for therapy to even work.

But it's a moot point. He replied and still will not acknowledge it. He waters it all down to "verbal disagreements". BS.
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