Hey Have Hope. I did not read your thread yet but I saw you have this. But I noticed one post where you said you are sending angry and ragey texts to this abuser. Did I get that right, I think it's a bad idea honestly, they feed off of seeing you being emotionally affected. Just do not show that you are in any way affected by him, don't even show anger, just be all cold and calculating for your own self-protection when dealing with him. That's just my suggestion though

Good luck overall!!


PS Sorry, if you already are doing that and then it's just trivial advice of course