I had a final session with my first therapist. It was planned and there was no prospect of me returning. I gave him a card saying thank you and we drank tea together (something we had never done before). I don't remember what we spoke about, but I did not have any strong feelings about the relationship ending so it would not have been intense. I do remember he invited me into the staff kitchen to make the tea with him and I was very uncomfortable about it. So, yes, tea and a card and forgettable chat.