Please forgive me as I forgot to suggest some solutions to the predicament you find your self in right now.

I personally used a few books to help me control my urges, mind and eyes.... and IF you do not mind a Christian over tone to the book I would suggest that you buy this one - as I did.

She Has a Secret
Understanding Female Sexual Addiction

http://www.booksamillion.com/ncom/bo...x=288&rate.y=5

Many other books by Dr. Douglas Weiss (as seen on Oprah) can be found on his website:

http://www.sexaddict.com/