You most be a very strong person. Being a man i have inside info for you . Alot of men think once they married you the own you and don't have to try any more to win you over . Sad but true just remember that we have smaller brains and think skulls so it may take time but you need to let him know you are not a peace of furniture that you got two legs that can get up and walk out. I think you are going to find that you are not alone that alot of woman go though this.