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Dec 22, 2020, 03:19 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,073
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my husband is building the case that I failed HIM, that I fooled HIM, and that this is all MY fault.
This angers me to no end. I know he will lie about what happened. I know it already. I know he will blame ME.
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Just curious, IF the roles were reversed how yould you handle yourself if you were him with his personality?
Yea, my ex when I had a conversation with him 11 years after I left, admitted that he was sure I would come back to him after 2 years of living on my own. He said, when I didn't, he started thinking maybe he was the cause of my leaving. Like NO DUH!!!! The thing is that no one wants to believe they are at fault in a relationship breaking apart especially when they love to hold onto a victim role in their life.
By the time I left my now ex, I didn't give a crap about what he said to anyone or how anyone felt about what I did because bottom line, I WAS TAKING CARE OF MYSELF & that is all that counts in life when it becomes necessary for survival whether physical or emotional.
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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