Have Hope, I think there is nothing worse than someone who demonstrates repetitive sickening behavior and goes on living their life as though they were a normal law abiding citizen. Hurting the ones they love, lying, cheating and expecting to be forgiven. Bending every rule and law to prove and impose themselves on others. Twisting a person’s emotions to make themselves look better, but it doesn’t.
Disregarding the very ideology that keeps us safe and civilized. Back-stabbing and and more lies and cheating on the ones they claim to love. Constantly badgering-behavior sending impractical messages in all directions with no hope for future reconcile. They are the problem here. They create negative energy and anxiety and distaste for common human relations. Really this behavior is disgracefully shallow and destroys trust and destroys wholesomeness and destroys the goodness we love in people. I think you are better to run from all this gaslighting and battery. Really take yourself far from this situation and do not look back. I feel for you and I hope you are able to mend the wounds and heal the scars that this person has caused you.