i am So Sorry that you're dealing with ALL of this! Your Husband certainly sounds confused. i'd agree that therapy and/or Marriage counselling could help but he seems to refuse. i am afraid there isn't much you can do as this is a decision that concerns him. If he truly feels this way and seems convinced in going forward then i am not sure there are many other alternatives. So Sorry about this certainly difficult situation. SEnding many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Looking4happiness7, your Family, your FriEnds and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!