my husband was in a state of declining health for 15 years prior to his passing. during that time our physical sex life was essentially nonexistant.
for all practical sake it was a mutual choice... due to his health issues he was unable to exert himself to that extreme; along with my extreme hesitation to put him in a situation that was possibly too much chance his heath be at risk .
and i say that because twice i had to call the ambulance after he collapsed in midst of our passions & both times he ended he had lengthy hospital stays.
absolutely of course the act of physical engaging in the act of sex is sensualy gratifying but lets all be honest here and admit that weve know how to manage doing that just fine all by ourselves long before we graduated from high school.
so ... that said, what is it, exactly, that you are not being provided with currently that the only way you can satisify yourself is to look elsewhere to get it?
did you miss the part about sickness, health, rich poor, or did you think the word "death" in til death do you part refered to the death of your sex life
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