Thank you people for replying to my message, yes, he did at one point have a counsillor but he has moved from that area recently and has been to his G.P to organise another one locally, recently since my fist post all we have done is argue because the slightest thing i do or say makes him angry, one night we had an arguement and i got a friend of mine to call me because i didn't know what to do, he walked out of the hosue slamming the door behind him, when he came back i asked him where he had bveen , he said OUT, then he locked himself in the bathroom, i was telling my friend on the phone that i knew he was in the bathroom and he was going to cut, i went to the bathroom door and was begging him to open it but he told me to go away and speak to my "new boyfriend", i went back in and told my friend on the phone what he had said and i heard him come out of the bathroom, he ran in and i thought he was going to punch me in the face put he wiped his arm all over me and started screaming "have you seen what you've made me do", i looked down and i was covred in blood, i looked at his arm and he had loads of slashes on his fore arm, i have counted since an there was 83 of them, and there was blood all over the floor, the person on the phone was a neuteral friend so he spoke to him, at this time i was having a panic attack on the couch crying my eyes out thinking that he was going to die and did not know what to do and that it was all my fault, and he said the only reason i was crying is not because i care about him but because i knew he had done it because of me and that i was feeling guilty, we have argued since and he has started saying that it is me that has the temper and causes all the arguements, and today he told me pack all my stuff because he was kicking me out and it was over, then said he was going to kill himself, i started crying my eyes out and packed, he then told me i didnt care because i was doing what he told me to, this morning we were laying in bed and i said to him, u can smile babe, he said what is there to smile about, so i said ok, then he said to me that he didnt want anyone or anything near him so i took me and the dog into the living room, he then started saying i didnt say u have to leave the room, just lay next to me and not touch me, what is going on>?????