Are those issues of physical/Health nature or simply personal concerning your Wife's desire for intimacy? If the latter is true and this thing is so important for you then i'd say you need to talk about ALL of this with your Wife and see how it goes from there but if the former is true perhaps it can be worked out somehow. Make her UnderstAnd how important this is for you, that you do wish some intimacy. SEnding many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @mf1438, your Family, your FriEnds, your Wife and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!