Just interested.

Would you prefer your T to push you to say something or would you prefer them to let you go at your pace and not pushing you at all? or maybe somewhere in between?

Personally sometimes it feels a bit like an interrogation rather than a therapy session when my T pushes me, it reminds me more of dealing with the police or the legal system. Even if my T means well, sometime pushing me too far might mean I will just not talk at all.

But sometimes I also need a bit of pushing. If she just let me go a pace I feel comfortable with, it might mean I will just stay within my comfort zone and never going near the things I really need to talk about.

So I would say somewhere in the middle.