I don't feel my psychologist understands what I am going through and I am constantly asked what is it I want to fix.

I have told some things about my past that has been difficult and it hurts. Then I am asked how does it affect me and why does it matter. Obviously, it has impacted me adversely for me to be where I am. Maybe I am not in touch with my feelings enough..? If I let my feelings out, i feel I will be rejected and invalidated.

i am testing this psychologist, i don't find she understands my past so I feel as though if I told her anything happening currently she may not understand or be judgemental and critical of me.

I feel pressured to present a specific problem and how can I do this when I don't feel a connection nor trust.

trust and disclosure