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Old Dec 23, 2020, 07:25 PM
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Through trial and error, L and I have learned when the times are to push me, and when yhe times are to go at my pace/slower. I'm okay with gentle pushing especially if they are things that she thinks I'll regret if she doesn't. She's usually right. But we also have the word "stop", and that's a signal to her that it's too much for me, and we then change topics until I'm able to calm back down.
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