Yes, my brain is not what it used to be. With an incident that started eleven days ago culminating in a family member being kicked out (I have been putting them up in a hotel and have promised to do that until the 1st what happens after that is still not solved). IMO, I have been calm throughout by focusing on an unchanging God and asking for wisdom to help me handle the situation correctly--with firmness and love. Our 33rd anniversary occurred last week--we both totally forgot. I roasted eight poblanos for my holiday poblano breakfast (was going to bring the family member a portion and probably still will)--only to find that I forgot to make sure I had enough eggs; I only had half of what I need to make the amount I usually make. There are so many things I overlook now but it doesn't make me upset anymore when I forget. I just have to accept that I can't do as much as I once was capable of doing.