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Originally Posted by TunedOut
My husband tries but he is also "brain damaged" from the stress of life and his own life decisions. I look at it as God humbles the proud. We all must examine ourselves and let others do the same. Though people have done us wrong, so have we, so we have to let go of the "wrong" (it is their choice, we can encourage but dictating rarely ever helps) and just stay calm by doing what we are called to do...
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I agree. I must have been toxically proud because I sure was humbled.
There’s nothing to do but let go of the ‘wronged’ dialogue. If the person who hurt us cared, they would have made amends or would not have hurt us at all. If the person doesn’t care, it will never make amends, and all we can do is try to heal our wounds.
I know you all have had a really hard time with things from relationships to jobs and we’re in a pandemic.
It’s a good way to think we are all beaten down, empathizing with those who have hurt us. Hurt people hurt people?
Happy belated anniversary!
