oh, I am very sorry havehope. It is never a good feeling to hear that someone you were close with is not doing well. So, at the least he is well enough to make an update to you. It is crazy to think how immature men are, and how they assume women are expected to be a certain way rather than growing and learning together as a couple. Nope, he makes it about himself, and not about you or you and him. He didn't even ask how your days are. So, Im thinking... you are not his therapist and it's not right for him to ask you to worry about him. Maybe send him an update similar to one you'd like to hear from him. DO NOT be sad for him. Be strong for him and for yourself.