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Originally Posted by Alive99
Wow oh god. That really is a very bad sob story. And on the surface you wouldn't even notice it is if you are still too focused on their needs/empathy for them. I'm so glad you are no longer focused on them!!!
It's really almost like gaslight or maybe it's even gaslight, like he's so sad about what happened, what the f***??!?! When he was the one RESPONSIBLE for what happened. And nightmare?!?!
And then EXPECTS you to be sorry about it too?!?!?! (He claims he doesn't but clearly he does.) Awesome. Unbelievable. Please just laugh at it, it's so ****in' surreal and absurd!  
And yeah I'm back here to read your thread and give you support but frankly I realise this also gives support to me too so thanks for sharing your story so openly and emotionally. |
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Alive99, thank you so much, and yeah I know, right???? He's saying he's in disbelief that this has happened, when he's the one who caused this???? WTF? He cheated!! And he wants ME to feel sorry for HIM?!? I'm incredulous.
I did eventually reply (yesterday - Christmas day) and I told him that this is no picnic for me either. I did fall a bit sorry for him and said I'm sorry he's alone on Christmas day. Ok, I grew a heart a little bit. It was Christmas after all, and I'm not a cold B (although I wish I were!).
Isn't he unbelievable? I cannot believe I married such a man. Truly!