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Originally Posted by divine1966
Don’t buy his stories. He might not even be alone when he says he is. Don’t tell him you are suffering, it only strokes his ego.
Don’t worry what he tells people. You text him in hope he won’t tell people that you are heartless. For all you know, he might be telling people that you behaved so poorly that he moved out to get some space but you wouldn’t leave him alone. So more texting isn’t serving a purpose or it fits right into his narrative
You have no ways to know what he really thinks does or says. You again believing his words. Don’t. You can’t outsmart people like him. They are always 5 steps of head of us in their scheming ways.
Take him out of equation and focus on you.
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Thanks @
divine1966. I know you're right.
I'm sure he is building that kind of narrative to his friends. That's out of my control, what he says to them. For the most part, I don't truly care, but a very tiny part of me does. Very tiny. I'll have to get over that.
I am trying to focus on me. It's hard. I am used to focusing my energy on other people besides myself. Now it's time for me to give energy to ME.