It’s not relevant. What I was trying to say is that’s insane to label someone as narcissist based on one question. I know a guy who would probably say that he wants to grow by being the best at what he does (including beating others at game). We’ve been working together for about a year. He’s not a narc at all. I’ve seen him doing things for people who had no respect for him. I’ve seen him lose when he didn’t have to just to do the right thing. He’s got a “happy” family. I don’t live with them but I’d say it’s not a show and they truly love each other. However, based on the answer he’d give, he fits your criteria. Could you please tell me how’s that work?