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Default Dec 26, 2020 at 12:44 PM
 
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Defensive? About what? I am so confused now...

I am just trying to understand what kind of answers would be indicative of anything? I do agree that we can see a lot from how people answering questions on a date but it’s not set in stone. Skillful narcissist and liar will answer all the right things! I want you to be careful.
Sorry - I edited my comment and deleted that part.

I think if someone doesn't tell me that they are working on aspects of themselves - for ME, it's not the person I wish to date. I want someone introspective, someone who is self-aware, who knows they have made mistakes and who is learning from their mistakes. I want someone who is into personal development and who wants to continuously improve themselves. So if they are not aware of their issues, I want nothing to do with them.

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