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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Sorry - I edited my comment and deleted that part.
I think if someone doesn't tell me that they are working on aspects of themselves - for ME, it's not the person I wish to date. I want someone introspective, someone who is self-aware, who knows they have made mistakes and who is learning from their mistakes. I want someone who is into personal development and who wants to continuously improve themselves. So if they are not aware of their issues, I want nothing to do with them.
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Well of course these are all important things. I was just trying to say that it will take more than that one question especially if there is a danger that the person pretends to be introspective. And surely many pretend and do an excellent job. People can say anything to get you hooked especially if they have ulterior motives. And narcissists are great at that. I don’t want to sound jaded but I am just being real. You are very trusting which is endearing quality but it causes you to be a prey of men who say all the right things
Ok to disagree on this matter